Handbook 2014..

HEALTH

✔Drink plenty of water.

✔Eat Breakfast like a king,  Lunch like a prince & Dinner like a beggar.

✔Live with the 3 E's-- Energy, Enthusiasm & Empathy.

✔Make time to pray.

✔Play more games.

✔Read more books than you did in 2013.

✔Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.

✔Sleep for 7 hours.

✔Take a 10-30 minutes walk daily And while you walk, Smile.

 
PERSONALITY

◾Don't over do. Keep your limits.

◾Don't take urself so seriously.  No one else does.

◾Don't waste your precious  energy on gossip.

◾Dream more while you are awake.

◾Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

◾Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present Happiness.

◾Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.

◾Make peace with your past so  it won't spoil the present.

◾No one is in charge of your happiness except you.

◾Smile and laugh more.

◾You don't have to win every argument, Agree to disagree.

 
SOCIETY

✒Call your family often.

✒Each day give something good to others.

✒Forgive everyone for everything.

✒Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.

✒Try to make at least three people smile each day.

✒What other people think of you is none of your business.


LIFE


⭐Do the right thing!

⭐GOD heals everything.

⭐However good or bad a situation is, it will  change.

⭐No matter how you feel, Get up, Dress up and Show up. The best is yet to come.

⭐When awake in the morning  thank GOD for it.

⭐Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy.



LAST BUT NOT THE LEAST

Take very good care of Yourself.
keep the smile, leave the tear, think of joy, forget the fear, Hold the laugh, leave the pain, be joyous, because its new year.. Wish you a very happy new year..


Please Forward This To Everyone Whom You Care..

Live your life..

A man died, when he realized it, he saw God coming closer with a suitcase in his hand.

God said: Alright son its time to go.

Surprised the man responded: Now? So soon? I had a lot of plans...

I'm sorry but its time to go.

What do you have in that suitcase? the man asked.

God answered: Your belongings.

My belongings? you mean my things, my clothes, my money?

God answered: Those things were not yours they belonged to the earth.

Is it my memories? the man asked.

God answered: those never belonged to you they belonged to Time

Is it my talents?

God answered: those were never yours they belonged to the circumstances.

Is it my friends and family?

God answered: I'm sorry they were never yours they belonged to the path.

Is it my wife and son?

God answered: They were never yours the belonged to your heart.

Is it my body?

God answered: that was never yours it belonged to the dust.

Is it my soul?

God answered: No that is mine.

Full of fear, the man took the suitcase from god and opened it just to find out the suitcase was empty.

With a tear coming down his cheek the man said: I never had anything???

God answered: that is correct, every moment you lived were only yours. Life is just a moment. a moment that belongs to you. this reason enjoy this time while you have it. Don't let anything that you think you own stop you from doing so.

Live Now

Live your life

Don't forget to be happy, that is the only thing that matters.

Material things and everything else that you fought for stay here.

YOU CAN'T TAKE ANYTHING

Share this reflection with anyone you love or appreciate. Enjoy every second you live.

I wish you enough...

Recently I overheard a father and daughter in their last moments together at the airport. They had announced the departure.

Standing near the security gate, they hugged and the father said, 'I love you, and I wish you enough.'

The daughter replied, 'Dad, our life together has been more than enough. Your love is all I ever needed. I wish you enough, too, Dad.'

They kissed and the daughter left. 

The Father walked over to the window where I was seated. Standing there I could see he wanted and needed to cry. I tried not to intrude on his privacy, but he welcomed me in by asking, 'Did you ever say good-bye to someone knowing it would be forever?'

'Yes, I have,' I replied. 'Forgive me for asking, but why is this a forever good-bye?'..

'I am old, and she lives so far away. I have challenges ahead and the reality is - the next trip back will be for my funeral,' he said.

'When you were saying good-bye, I heard you say, 'I wish you enough..' May I ask what that means?'

He began to smile. 

'That's a wish that has been handed down from other generations. My parents used to say it to everyone...' He paused a moment and looked up as if trying to remember it in detail, and he smiled even more. 'When we said, 'I wish you enough,' we were wanting the other person to have a life filled with just enough good things to sustain them.' Then turning toward me, he shared the following as if he were reciting it from memory. 

I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright no matter how gray the day may appear.

I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun even more. 

I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive and everlasting.

I wish you enough pain so that even the smallest of joys in life may appear bigger.

I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting. 

I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess.

I wish you enough hellos to get you through the final good-bye.

He then began to cry and walked away.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them; but then an entire life to forget them.

TAKE TIME TO LIVE.... 

To all my friends and loved ones, I WISH YOU ENOUGH.

Wishing You A Very Happy Christmas..

Life Gives Us Many Opportunities.

It Depends On Us Exactly 

How We Want To Utilize It.

Faith makes 

all things possible,

Hope makes 

all things work,

Love makes 

all things beautiful,

May you have all 

the three for this Christmas.

May this Christmas 

be so special

that you never ever 

feel lonely again

and be surrounded by loved ones throughout!

Wishing You A 

Very Happy Christmas

With Love And Best Wishes

May That Happy Christmas Season Bring You 

Lots Of Happiness

Joy In Your Life.

I hope you have a wonderful christmas

have a great new year !

Hopefully santa will be extra good to you .

Enjoy your holidays !

Look for something positive in each day...

✔Never wish you were somebody else; there are people out there envying you for who you are"

✔Look for something positive in each day, even if some days you have to look a little harder. Let the challenges make you strong.

✔Things change, people change, feelings change. It's a good thing memories never do.

✔Sometimes, you forgive people simply because you still want them in your life.

✔How other see you is not important. How you see yourself means everything.

✔You can’t blame someone for walking away if you didn’t do anything to make them stay.

✔Be more concerned with your character than your reputation. Your character is what you really are while your reputation is merely what others think you are.

✔There comes a time when you have to be strong, hold your head up high, and know you did your best! Don't ever settle for less than what you deserve!

✔The person who loves you the most is the one you see in the mirror.

Be Unique..

Don't compare 

Be unique. 

Don't fight UR misfortune

Transform it. 

Don't avoid failure 

Use it. 

Don't dwell on mistakes

Learn from it.

Don't back down

Stand Proud!."

We all are tourists!!!

We all are tourists & 

God is our travel agent 

who already fixed

all our Routes 

Reservations

 & 

Destinations

So! Trust him &

Enjoy the "Trip" called LIFE...

Words are under control, until.....

Words are under your control until u speak them, but you come under their control once you have spoken them..!" 

No one is in-charge of your happiness except You. However good or bad a situation is, it will be surely changed.

You cannot upload Love!!

You can't upload Love,

Can't download Time

&

can't google 

all the questions of life.

So just login to reality

&

'Like' the Status of Your life.

Alphabeticals are so intelligently arranged !

“A”lways “B”e “C”ool.. 

“D”on’t have “E”go with “F”riends

“G”iveup “H”urting “I”ncidences 

“J”ust “K”eep “L”oving “M”ankind 

“N”ever “O”mit “P”rayers 

“Q”uietly “R”emember (GOD) 

“S”peak “T”he “T”ruth 

“U”se “V”alid “W”ord 

“X”press “Y”our “Z”eal

Super Awesome Lines..

All the problems are stuck between mind and matter..

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.

.

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If you don't mind, 

It doesn't matter....!!

Best Creation Of God..

If you see the moon 

You see the beauty of God

If you see the Sun 

You see the power of God 

And 

If you see the Mirror 

You see the best Creation of GOD 

So Believe in YOURSELF

Learn to enjoy every turn in your life..

Life is flowing like a river

with unexpected

turns.

May be good,

May be bad.

Learn to enjoy each turn

B'coz, these turns will never RETURN..

Three Stages...

We often face 3 stages

Insult

 Opposition

and

 Acceptance

Fools stop at 1st

Loosers stop at 2nd

Winners cross 3rd n never stop

I Feared being alone..

I feared being alone

until I learned to like myself.

I feared failure

until I realized that I only fail when I don't try.

I feared success

until I realized that I had to try in order to be happy with myself.

I feared people's opinions

until I learned that people would have opinions about me anyway.

I feared rejection

until I learned to have faith in myself.

I feared pain

until I learned that it's necessary for growth.

I feared the truth

until I saw the ugliness in lies.

I feared life

until I experienced its beauty.

I feared death

until I realized that it's not an end, 

but a beginning.

I feared my destiny,

until I realized that I had the power to change my life.

I feared hate

until I saw that it was nothing more than ignorance.

I feared love

until it touched my heart, 

making the darkness fade into endless 

sunny days.

I feared ridicule

until I learned 

how to laugh 

at myself.

I feared growing old

until I realized that I gained wisdom every day.

I feared the future

until I realized that life just kept getting better.

I feared the past

until I realized that it could no longer hurt me.

I feared the dark

until I saw the beauty of the star light.

I feared the light

until I learned that the truth would give me strength.

I feared change,

until I saw that even the most beautiful butterfly had to under gometamorphosis 

before it could fly.

Please keep her happy....

A DAD’S SPEECH AT HIS DAUGHTER’S WEDDING

I thought I would start my speech by addressing you as the “new” family of my daughter. But I think it would be inappropriate because now that she is married, you are “the family” for her. Believe me; I don’t have a problem with that. I, in fact, want my daughter to have “you” as her priority now. Its time for us to take a backseat in her life. We would happily accept it but would surely request one thing- please keep her happy!

I am more than sure that you will keep her very happy. She will perhaps be happier than what she used to be here. But like all fathers, I obsess over my daughter’s happiness which is making me say this over and over again- please keep her happy!

She never was and will never be a burden for me. She is in fact the reason why I breathe and smile. I am getting her married because this is what the law of nature demands. I am helpless in the face of our culture and therefore sending her to your home. She was the happiness of my home and will now light up your home. I am giving my world to you. Please make sure it remains beautiful. I am giving away my princess to you. Please make sure she stays as a queen. I have raised her with my sweat and blood and now she is wonderfully perfect. For all the care, love, beauty and warmth my daughter will bring into your lives, I just want her happiness in return—please keep her happy!

If at times you think that my daughter has said or done something wrong, feel free to scold her. But handle her with love. She is very fragile. If at times she feels low, be with her. She just needs a little bit of your attention. If at times she feels sick, show her some care. It’s the medicine that works best for her. If at times she fails to fulfill a responsibility, feel free to chastise her. But empathize with her. She is still learning. Do understand her—please keep her happy!

I don’t mind if I don’t get to see her for months. I don’t mind if I am not able to talk to her on a daily basis. I would be more than happy if she doesn’t remember me much. But, my only motive in life has been my daughter’s happiness which is now in your hands. I beg you, please keep her happy.

Dear son-in-law, these words may not mean much to you now but if you are lucky enough to father a daughter someday, you will appreciate them better when you will find every beat of your heart shouting – “please keep her happy”!

Read it... Will surely make u cry.....When a girl gets married, she steps out of her own heaven and enters into a world full of uncertainties just to keep a family running and lives blooming. For this great sacrifice of hers, even the heavenly angels request just one thing – “please keep her happy

Five simple rules to be happy..

Five simple rules to be happy

Free your heart from hatred.

Free your mind from worries.

Live simply.

Give more.

Expect less.

11-12-13 : A DATE TO REMEMBER!

CELEBRATING 11-12-13 :

A DATE TO REMEMBER!

What's Special?

It has never come before and will never come again. 11-12-13 is the last of the amazing 'series' dates of this century.

You are a part of a generation to have witnessed:

01/02/03

 02/03/04 

03/04/05 

04/05/06 

05/06/07

06/07/08 

07/08/09 

08/09/10 

09/10/11 

10/11/12

This special date also happens to fall on the 345th day of the year, which is again a series i.e. 3-4-5. 

Another interesting fact that you would love to know about this month is that it has 5 Sundays, 5 Mondays and 5 Tuesdays which happens once in 823 years. With so many firsts, this date is definitely one to treasure!

Whether it's auspicious or just easy to remember, couples are choosing to get married today because of the date — 11/12/13.

This is date is also backed with another mathematical sequence. The sum of 11, 12, and 13 is 9 and even as per Chinese, 9 is considered to be 'lucky' and it means, long lasting. 

The day also signifies the planet Mars, which makes it very influential.

Gift of LIFE is LIFE itself...

Life is only travelled ONCE,

Todays MOMENT become TOMMORROW's MEMORY.

Enjoy every moment 

good or bad,

because the gift of 

LIFE is LIFE itself.

List Of "DO's" and "DONT's" In LIFE: (Worth Reading)

 Never Share Ur Secrets with Anyone.
This can be Self-Destructive,
Perhaps the most Important Advice in Life.
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Never Tell Ur Problems to Anyone.
20% will not Care &
80% will be Glad that U have Them.
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Life is similar to Boxing Game.
Defeat is not Declared when U Fall Down.
It is Declared when U Refuse to Get Up.
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Always WRONG PERSONS Teach the RIGHT LESSONS in Life.
That is called LIFE EXPERIENCE.
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Faith is taking the 1st Step,
even when U dont see the whole Staircase.
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Keep Ur Face to the Sun and
 U will not see the Shadow.
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Everything is Valuable only at 2 Times:
1: Before Getting It.
2: After Losing It.
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2 Things brings Happiness & Success in Life:
1: The way U Manage when U have Nothing.&
2: The way U Behave when U have Everything.
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2 Places are most Valuable in the World:
1: The NICEST Place is to be in Someone's Thoughts.&
2: The SAFEST Place is to be in Someone's Prayers.
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'FEAR' has 2 Meanings:
1: Forget Everything and; Run and
2: Face Everything and; Rejoice. Choice is Ours.
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What is SUCCESS ?
SUCCESS is, when Ur Photo's are Uploaded on 'GOOGLE' instead of FACEBOOK.
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EGO is the only Requirement to Destroy any Relationship.
Be a Bigger Person, Skip the 'E' & let it 'GO'.
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Do U know why God did not give Us the Gift to Read Others Mind ?
So that, We could have the Chances to 'TRUST' & Privilege to be 'TRUSTED'.
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Always keep Hoping for Good.
Keep a Green Tree in Ur Heart.
The Singing Birds will Automatically come.
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If U Walk the Way guided by Humans,
U will find a Hopeless End.
BUT
If U will Walk the Way guided by GOD,
U will find Endless Hopes & Opportunities.
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GOD always likes to know again & again
what U want.
It is not that He Forgets Ur
Dreams & Prayers,
But He Loves to Check Ur Passion
towards Ur Desire.
That is why He wants U to have Ur
'QUIET TIME' which We call as
'PRAYER TIME' with Him everyday.
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Empty Pockets Teach
Millons of Things in Life.
BUT
Full Pockets Spoil Us in Million Ways.
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SEA is common for All.
Some take Pearls,
Some take Fishes,
Some come out just with Wet Legs.
Word is common to all

Key to happiness...

The KEY To HAPPINESS is

Not That You NEVER Get 

ANGRY, 

UPSET, 

FRUSTRATED, 

IRRITATED

 or 

DEPRESSED,

Its How FAST

You Decide

To Get OUT of it.

Understanding small things...

Worrying – Waste Of Time..

You already miss the person...

A lovely lesson for life.

A student asks a teacher: What is love?

The teacher said: in order to answer your question, go to the paddy field and choose the biggest paddy and come back.

But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick.

The student went to the field, go thru first row, he saw one big paddy, but he wonders....may be there is a bigger one later. Then he saw another bigger one... but may be there is an even bigger one waiting for him.

Later, when he finished more than half of the paddy field, he start to realize that the paddy is not as big as the previous one he saw, he know he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted. So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand.

The teacher told him, this is love... you keep looking for a better one, but when later you realize, you have already miss the person.

The student asked: What is marriage then? 

The teacher said: In order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and come back. 

But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick. 

The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he has picked one medium corn that he feel satisfied, and came back to the teacher.

The teacher told him, this time you bring back a corn.... you look for one that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is the best one you get.... this is marriage 

Be courteous to all, but intimate with few, and let those few be well tried before you give them your confidence.