you deserve to be.....

You have to forgive people, 

not because they deserve it, 

but because you deserve to be free of them....

How powerful your thoughts are...

 

If you realized....

how powerful your thoughts are, 

you would never thought anything negative...

Dance like no one’s watching..

Dance like no one’s watching, 

sing like no one’s listening, 

love like you’ll never get hurt, and …

Live like it’s heaven on Earth!

Count your blessings....

 

Count your blessings and your problem

If your problems out number your blessings, 

Count Again….
Chances are 

the things that you take for granted 

were not added up…

when you are good to others....

Forget your own unhappiness 

by creating a little happiness for others.

Because when you are good to others, 

you are best to yourself.

Life is like a Flute..

Life is like a Flute.....

It may have many holes and emptyness in it

But...

If you work on it carefully, 

It can Play Magical Melodies...

When I am open to the others feelings

 When I am open to the others feelings, 

I am able to relate to them effectively. 

I never let go of my inner strength becoming a source of support for others. 

I become such a strong pillar of support

that others are able to free 

themselves of their negativity.

A soft nature doesn't mean Weakness..

A soft nature doesn't mean Weakness.

Remember 

anything is softer then water, 

but its force 

can break the strongest of Rock...

Absense is the best presence.....

Absense is the best presence

Becoz 

if people are absent then U Miss them

&

If U Miss them that means they are

PRESENT in your Heart...

Forced to Smile

The hardest moment in Life 

is not when you Lose some one 

and tears come out of your eyes,

its when you know you are losing someone and

you are forced to smile....

Don't Give Up....

Just don't give up 

trying to do 

what you really want to do. 

Where there is love and inspiration, 

you will never go wrong,

Believe in yourself....

Secret Of Success

People become really quite remarkable 

when they start thinking that they can do things.

When they believe in themselves 

they have the first secret of success.

Stop blaming

People are always blaming their circumstances for what they are. 

Please don't believe in circumstances. 

The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want, and if they can't find them, make them.

......George Bernard Shaw

Think Big

Rise above little things. 

Be a big thinker. 

You are what you think. 

So just think big, believe big, 

act big, dream big, 

work big, give big, 

forgive big, laugh big,

image big, love big, 

live big. 

Carry that list and you'll start feeling big.

Be a believer and you'll be an achiever.

Peace of Mind!!!

Peace of mind comes not from wanting to change others,

but by simply accepting them as they are.

Sweetness

Sweetness is a virtue that searches with patience for the good in every person and situation.

Life's Biggest Truth......

We Love ourself even after committing thousand mistakes, 

then still we can't forget and forgive others for just one mistake....

Life is live a Flowing River!!!

Life is Flowing like a river with unexpected Turns....

May be Good, May be Bad,

Learn to enjoy Each turn....

Your mind can be your good friend!!

"Your mind is your great friend,

 if you control it....

But

Your mind is your greatest enemy, 

if it controls you"....

If you stand for a Reason!!!

If you Stand for a Reason, 

Be prepared to stand alone Like a tree...

If you fall on the ground, 

fall as a seed that grows back to fight again...

Greatest Gift of Life...

The greatest gift of your life is when you find some one who knows all your faults and drawbacks, yes willingly accepts you with much Love & Affection.....

God has 3 Answers for Each Prayer....

God has 3 answers for each prayer.

1.Yes 

2. No 

3. Wait

I have another plan for you,

But he Never so NO... 

Trust Him always 

and 

He will Bless You always:)

Don't make Life too Stressful.....

"Don't make life too Stressful. Always find time to "LAUGH" 

Because it may not add years to your life. 

But it surely adds more life to your years."

Unexpected Turns

Life is Flowing Like a Rive with Unexpected Turns.....

May be Good, May be Bad,

Lean to Enjoy each Turn, 
Because these turns will never return!!!

Sorry

We take few seconds to hurt someone 

but sometimes we take years to say sorry....

Believe in Good Karma!!

If a special Plan does not work for you,

Its because there's always something bigger and better planned by god for you..

Your Choice....

Birth was not your choice...

Death is also not your choice....

But the way you live life is absolutely your choice.....

so enjoy it and fill each day with joy:)

Risk Must be Taken!!!

To laugh is to risk appearing the fool..
To weep is to risk appearing the sentimental..
To reach out for another is to risk of involvement..
To express feeling is to risk exposing your true self..
To place your ideas and your dreams before the crowd is risk of their loss..
To love is to risk not being loved in return..
To hope is to risk indespair..
To live is to risk dying..
BUT risk must be taken..............
Becuase the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing..
People who risk nothing do nothing, have nothing, nothing..........

They may avoid SUFFERING & SORROW... But they can't

LEARN.. FEEL..CHANGE..GROW..LOVE.. LIVE CHAINED BY THEIR ATTITUDES,

THEY HAVE SALVES.. THEY HAVE FORFEITED THEIR FREEDOM....

only a person who take risk is free......

Positive Attitude in Negative Situation

When ever you get Pain in your life, 

just think about full form of Pain

Positive Attitude In Negative Situation

A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one.

There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the back of the fence.

The first day, the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks, as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence.

Finally the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper. The days passed and the boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone.

The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said, "You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won't matter how many times you say I'm sorry. The wound is still there."

A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one.

Fools never value good advice. It is better not to advise them..

On a mango tree in a jungle, there lived many birds. They were happy in their small nests. Before the onset of the rainy season, all the animal of the jungle repaired their homes. The birds also made their homes more secure.

Many birds brought twigs and leaves and others wove their nests. “We should also store some food for our children,” chirped one of the birds. And they collected food, until they had enough to see them through the rainy season. They kept themselves busy preparing for the tough times.

Soon the rains came. It was followed by thunder and lighting. All the animals and birds stayed in their homes.

It continued raining for many days. One day, a monkey wet in the rain came into the forest. He sat on a branch, shivering with cold, water dripping from its body.

The poor monkey tried his best to get shelter, but in vain. The leaves were not enough to save him from the rains. “Brrr! It is so cold!” said the monkey.

The birds were watching all this. They felt sorry for the monkey but there was little they could do for him. One of them said, “Brother! Our small nests are not enough to give you shelter.”

Another bird said, “All of us prepared for the rainy season. If you had, you would not be in this piteous situation.”

“How dare you tell me what to do?” said the monkey, growling at the bird. The monkey angrily pounced on the bird’s nest, tore it and threw it on the ground. The bird and her chicks were helpless.

The poor bird thought, “Fools never value good advice. It is better not to advise them.”

Be very careful in choosing your words!!!

A farmer insulted his neighbor. Realizing his mistake, he went to the preacher to ask for forgiveness. 
The preacher told him to take a bag of feathers and drop them in the center of town.

The farmer did as he was told. Then the preacher asked him to go and collect the feathers and put them back in the bag. The farmer tried but couldn't as the feathers had all blown away.

When he returned with the empty bag, the preacher said, "The same thing is true about your words. You dropped them rather easily but you cannot retrieve them, so be very careful in choosing your words."

That is not what bothers me!!!

A farmer had a dog who used to sit by the roadside waiting for vehicles to come around. As soon as one came he would run down the road, barking and trying to overtake it.

One day a neighbor asked the farmer "Do you think your dog is ever going to catch a car?" 

The farmer replied, "That is not what bothers me. What bothers me is what he would do if he ever caught one." 

Many people in life behave like that dog who is pursuing meaningless goals.

Greedy think only of themselves!!!

A holy man was having aconversation with God one day and said,
' God , I would like to know what Heaven and Hell are like.'

God led the holy man to two doors.

He opened one of the doors and the holy man looked in.

In the middle of the room was a large round table. In the middle of the table was a large pot of stew, which smelled delicious and made the holy man's mouth water.

The people sitting around the table were thin and sickly. They appeared to be famished.

They were holding spoons with very long handles, that were strapped to their arms and each found it possible to reach into the pot of stew and take a spoonful.

But because the handle was longer than their arms, they could not get the spoons back into their mouths.

The holy man shuddered at the sight of their misery and suffering.

God said, 'You have seen Hell.'

They went to the next room and opened the door. It was exactly the same as the first one.

There was the large round table with the large pot of stew which made the holy man's mouth water.

The people were equipped with the same long-handled spoons, but here the people were well nourished and plump, laughing and talking. The holy man said, 'I don't understand..'

It is simple,' said God . 'It requires but one skill.

You see they have learned to feed eachother, while the greedy think only of themselves.'

Quite Corner!!!

"Life Is Sometimes Made Of 

the Small Moments

of Contentment..
you Find that

In the

Quiet Corners Of the Day"

What To Overlook!!

“The Art Of Being Wise 

Is The Art 

Of Knowing 

What To Overlook”

Don't give up!!!

“Many Of Life’s Failures Are Men 

Who Did Not Realize 

How Close They Were 

To Success 

When They Gave Up”

What we want????

We do not know what we want

and yet we are responsible

for what we are - 

this is the fact.

Expectations!!!

A turtle family decided to go on a picnic. Turtles, being naturally slow about things, took seven years to prepare for their outing. Finally the turtle family left home looking for a suitable place. During the second year of their journey they found a place ideal for them at last!

For about six months they cleaned the area, unpacked the picnic basket, and completed the arrangements. Then they discovered they had forgotten the salt. A picnic without salt would be a disaster, they all agreed. After a lengthy discussion, the youngest turtle was chosen to retrieve the salt from home. Although he was the fastest of the slow moving turtles, the little turtle whined, cried, and wobbled in his shell. He agreed to go on one condition: that no one would eat until he returned. The family consented and the little turtle left.

Three years passed and the little turtle had not returned. Five years...six years... then on the seventh year of his absence, the oldest turtle could no longer contain his hunger. He announced that he was going to eat and begun to unwrap a sandwich. At that point the little turtle suddenly popped out from behind a tree shouting, "See! I knew you wouldn't wait. Now I am not going to go get the salt."

Moral of the Story:

Some of us waste our time waiting for people to live up to our expectations of them. We are so concerned about what others are doing that we don't do anything ourselves. Often we wait for people to make , what we think are, mistakes so that we can 'get back' at them. Its a mindless and fruitless exercise doing so. You do the right thing without waiting for people to do what you think is their bit...

Have complete Trust on HIM!

God upsets your plans only to SETUP plan for you...

Bcoz you see you present and plan your future,

But HE sees your future and plans your present..

So

Have complete Trust on HIM!!

Knowing others!!!

Knowing others is intelligence,

knowing yourself is true wisdom.

Mastering others is strength,

mastering yourself is true power.

As you expect!!!!

Notice good things in others as quickly as you notice mistakes. Forgive others as quickly as you expect GOD to forgive you.

This is how the human brain often works when our status changes

 
There was a blind girl who hated herself because she was blind. She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He was always there for her. She told her boyfriend, 'If I could only see the world, I will marry you.'

One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her. When the bandages came off, she was able to see everything, including her boyfriend.

He asked her,'Now that you can see the world, will you marry me?'

The girl looked at her boyfriend and saw that he was blind. The sight of his closed eyelids shocked her. She hadn't expected that. The thought of looking at them the rest of her life led her to refuse to marry him.

Her boyfriend left her in tears and days later wrote a note to her saying: 'Take good care of your eyes, my dear, for before they were yours, they were mine.'

This is how the human brain often works when our status changes.
Only a very few remember what life was like before, and who was always by their side in the most painful situations.

Life Is a Gift

Today before you say an unkind word - Think of someone who can't speak.

Before you complain about the taste of your food - Think of someone who has nothing to eat.

Before you complain about your husband or wife - Think of someone who's crying out to GOD for a companion.

Today before you complain about life - Think of someone who went too early to heaven.

Before you complain about your children -Think of someone who desires children but they're barren.

Before you argue about your dirty house someone didn't clean or sweep - Think of the people who are living in the streets.

Before whining about the distance you drive Think of someone who walks the same distance with their feet.

And when you are tired and complain about your job - Think of the unemployed, the disabled, and those who wish they had your job.

But before you think of pointing the finger or condemning another - Remember that not one of us is without sin and we all answer to one MAKER.

And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down - Put a smile on your face and thank GOD you're alive and still around.

But Still Very Very Important For Life.

Good Relations Are 

Just Like Water 

No Color

No Shape

No Place

No Taste

But Still Very Very Important For Life.

Someone touches your HEART!!!

It's not the presence of someone 

that brings meaning to Life.

But the way Someone touches your HEART 

gives LIFE a Beautiful Meaning.

60 seconds of happiness!!!

For every minute

 you are angry with someone, 

You lose 60 seconds of happiness 

that you can never get back.